A new year often symbolizes fresh starts and self-reflection, but for some couples, it marks the end of their relationship. January is sometimes referred to as “divorce month” due to the noticeable increase in filings after the holidays. Understanding the reasons behind this trend can shed light on why the start of the year often brings big changes for many families.
The stress of the holiday season
The holidays are supposed to bring joy, but for some couples, they create stress and expose cracks in their relationship. Financial pressures, family obligations, and unrealistic expectations can heighten existing tensions. In California, community property laws can make divorce decisions even more pressing, as couples may begin considering how shared assets and debts will be divided once the new year starts.
A desire for a fresh start
The new year often inspires resolutions and changes. For individuals in unhappy marriages, it can be a time to reflect and decide that ending the relationship is the best path forward. California’s no-fault divorce laws make it easier for couples to separate based on irreconcilable differences, allowing them to move forward without assigning blame.
Waiting for the right time
Many couples delay divorce until after the holidays to avoid disrupting family traditions or creating additional stress for children. By waiting until January, they can provide their families with one last holiday season together before starting the legal process. In California, the six-month waiting period for finalizing a divorce means timing can be a significant factor in when to file.
Finding a path to a better future
The decision to end a marriage is never easy, but for many couples, the start of a new year offers a chance to focus on personal growth and long-term happiness. While the process can be challenging, taking steps toward a better future often provides clarity and renewed hope for the road ahead.