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    <title type="text">Law Offices of Ashley Philpot Mattos </title>
    <subtitle type="text">Lawyer in Tulare &#124; Family Law and Divorce &#124; Criminal Law</subtitle>

    <updated>2026-06-24T14:37:41Z</updated>

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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Ashley Philpot Mattos</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Streamline a California divorce with a joint petition]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/?p=48872</id>
            <updated>2026-06-24T14:37:41Z</updated>
            <published>2026-06-24T14:37:41Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[It is worrisome to think that ending your marriage can mean entering a bitter courtroom battle. Fortunately, you do not need to face a hostile legal system to separate from your spouse. A new California law allows you and your spouse to file a joint petition for divorce. Ultimately, this non-adversarial approach saves you time and reduces stress. Eliminate the…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/06/streamline-a-california-divorce-with-a-joint-petition/"><![CDATA[It is worrisome to think that ending your marriage can mean entering a bitter courtroom battle. Fortunately, you do not need to face a hostile legal system to separate from your spouse.

A new California law allows you and your spouse to file a joint petition for divorce. Ultimately, this non-adversarial approach saves you time and reduces stress.
<h2>Eliminate the adversarial labels from your case</h2>
Under traditional California divorce laws, an adversarial legal standard triggers the penalty of public court battles and mandatory process servers. This standard forces couples into a defensive posture. However, Senate Bill 1427 changes this dynamic.

Effective Jan. 1, 2026, couples with children or significant assets can file together. Therefore, you act as equal partners instead of opponents. Consequently, you avoid the stressful petitioner vs. respondent labels entirely.
<h2>Skip the formal process server entirely</h2>
A major benefit of a joint petition is bypassing traditional service of process. Specifically, you do not need to hire a stranger to hand deliver legal papers to your spouse. Instead, you both sign the same documents and submit them to the court at the same time.

This immediate cooperation starts the mandatory six-month waiting period on day one. Please note that the six-month legal limit is current as of June 2026.
<h2>Maintain a cooperative focus for your family</h2>
Additionally, a <a href="https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/divorce/joint-petition" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">joint filing</a> requires full transparency from both parties. You must exchange financial disclosures within 60 days. You must also reach a complete agreement on several critical issues. These issues include:
<ul>
 	<li>Child custody and visitation</li>
 	<li>Child support calculations</li>
 	<li>Property division and debt allocation</li>
 	<li>Spousal support payments</li>
</ul>
Working through these matters together protects your children from unnecessary conflict. As a result, you build a solid foundation for future coparenting.
<h2>Secure a peaceful path forward for your future</h2>
Divorcing without a courtroom fight allows you to keep the details of your finances and business valuations private. Furthermore, you <a href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/divorce/" data-wpel-link="internal">maintain control over your personal life</a> rather than handing decisions over to a judge.

Speaking with a compassionate family law attorney helps you understand how this new joint filing process works. Ultimately, professional guidance ensures your rights remain protected throughout your case.

&nbsp;]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Ashley Philpot Mattos</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Considerations for high-asset property division in California]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/05/considerations-for-high-asset-property-division-in-california/" />
            <id>https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/?p=48871</id>
            <updated>2026-05-11T20:23:28Z</updated>
            <published>2026-05-11T20:23:28Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Anyone who’s going through a divorce likely knows that there are various areas that can be challenging to work through. One of these is dividing property. This process often becomes more complex in higher-asset situations.  In California, high-asset property division follows the same legal framework as any other divorce, but it often requires a more detailed analysis. These divorces often…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/05/considerations-for-high-asset-property-division-in-california/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">Anyone who's going through a divorce likely knows that there are various areas that can be challenging to work through. One of these is dividing property. This process often becomes more complex in higher-asset situations. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">In California, </span><a href="https://protect.checkpoint.com/v2/r01/___https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displayexpandedbranch.xhtml?tocCode=FAM&amp;division=7.&amp;title=&amp;part=&amp;chapter=&amp;article=&amp;nodetreepath=9___.YzJ1OndlYm1kOmM6ZzpiNjBkNDEyMWRmZjIyZTYzMzFmY2FmNDMxYTljOTRhMzo3OjFkZjY6M2QxNzQ3MjVjNzc3NTYwY2EyMjgwYWFmNmU3ODVhNWVmNGIwNzU0NmEyMjE4N2M2MTE0OGQyMjgxZjE0YzliNzpwOlQ6Rg" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">high-asset property division</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> follows the same legal framework as any other divorce, but it often requires a more detailed analysis. These divorces often involve investment portfolios, real estate holdings, businesses and deferred compensation plans.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">California is a community property state</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">One factor that makes property division in California so complex is that this is a community property state. This means property acquired during marriage is typically considered a joint asset, regardless of who purchased it or whose name is on the title. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Separate property may include assets either party owned before the marriage or received by inheritance or dedicated gift. However, if spouses intertwine these with marital assets, they may be community property. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Disputes can often arise</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Disputes can often arise in high-asset cases. One of these is the distinction between community and separate property, which can require the tracing of source to determine how the property should be characterized. Valuation is another dispute that can arise. Market fluctuations and future earning potential can complicate these matters.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">High-asset property division in California</a> is often rooted in equal ownership, but determining how to split it is rarely simple. More complex financial pictures mean that more detailed analysis is necessary to fairly identify value and allocate marital property during the divorce. </span>

The division of assets must be balanced with the division of debts. Tax consequences add another layer of complexity in high-asset cases, since different assets carry different tax implications.
<p class="mb-2 whitespace-pre-wrap">Navigating a high-asset divorce in California demands strategic thinking and careful planning. The financial decisions made during this process can affect your quality of life for years to come. While the road ahead may seem overwhelming, you don't have to face it alone. With skilled legal counsel, you can work toward a fair settlement that protects your interests and your financial future.</p>]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Ashley Philpot Mattos</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[The child support add-ons California courts can order]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/05/the-child-support-add-ons-california-courts-can-order/" />
            <id>https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/?p=48870</id>
            <updated>2026-05-08T08:06:30Z</updated>
            <published>2026-05-08T08:06:30Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[A child support order in California often involves more than one monthly payment. Courts can require parents to share certain costs on top of the base amount, and those added costs can affect the final support amount for both parents. Costs a court excludes from base support California uses a statewide formula to set base child support. That formula takes…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/05/the-child-support-add-ons-california-courts-can-order/"><![CDATA[A child support order in California often involves more than one monthly payment. Courts can require parents to share certain costs on top of the base amount, and those added costs can affect the final support amount for both parents.
<h2>Costs a court excludes from base support</h2>
California uses a statewide formula <a href="https://codes.findlaw.com/ca/family-code/fam-sect-4055/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">to set base child support</a>. That formula takes into account each parent's income, time-share split and certain write-offs, but it does not cover every cost a child may have.

Add-ons fill in the gap. By default, these added costs are split equally at 50-50, but courts can order parents to split them based on each parent's share of combined net income if a parent requests it. These show up as separate line items rather than changes to the base number.
<h2>Expenses a court must order</h2>
California law identifies <a href="https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?lawCode=FAM&amp;sectionNum=4062." target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">the following add-ons as mandatory</a>:
<ul>
 	<li aria-level="1">Childcare costs connected to a parent's employment or to education and training reasonably necessary for employment skills</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Uninsured health care expenses for the child, including copays, deductibles, orthodontia and other medically necessary treatments that insurance does not cover</li>
</ul>
If you pay health insurance premiums for your child, those premiums are not split as a cost. Instead, they are deducted from your gross income when calculating your net disposable income for base child support.
<h2>Additions a judge may consider</h2>
Beyond mandatory costs, state law gives courts the authority to order cost such as:
<ul>
 	<li aria-level="1">Educational costs</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Travel expenses for visitation</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Special needs expenses</li>
</ul>
A judge evaluates each request by weighing the child's needs, both parents' financial circumstances and the reasonableness of the expense. The fact that a cost is discretionary does not mean a court will deny it, but you may need to present a stronger case for why it is appropriate.
<h2>Challenges a parent can bring to an order</h2>
If you believe an add-on is unreasonable or unnecessary, you can file a request for an order asking the court to revisit the expense. You would typically need to present evidence showing that the cost is excessive, no longer relevant or disproportionate to your financial situation.

<a href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/family-law/child-custody/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">Modification requests</a> also come into play when circumstances shift over time. A substantial change in either parent's income, an adjustment in the child's needs or the end of a particular expense can all support a request to revise the existing order.

The process generally requires filing paperwork with the family court and attending a hearing where both sides can present their positions. Gathering documentation such as pay stubs, receipts, insurance records or school invoices strengthens your case.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Ashley Philpot Mattos</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Is your spouse hiding assets during the divorce?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/03/is-your-spouse-hiding-assets-during-the-divorce/" />
            <id>https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/?p=48867</id>
            <updated>2026-03-02T16:04:55Z</updated>
            <published>2026-03-10T15:04:26Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Divorce is already an emotional rollercoaster, but discovering that your spouse might be hiding assets adds a layer of betrayal that is hard to shake. After building a life together, the thought of being misled during such a vulnerable time can be painful. However, you are not without options. Understanding your rights is critical in protecting your legacy. What California…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/03/is-your-spouse-hiding-assets-during-the-divorce/"><![CDATA[Divorce is already an emotional rollercoaster, but discovering that your spouse might be hiding assets adds a layer of betrayal that is hard to shake. After building a life together, the thought of being misled during such a vulnerable time can be painful.

However, you are not without options. Understanding your rights is critical in protecting your legacy.
<h2>What California law says about hidden assets</h2>
In California, marriage is a partnership in which both spouses must act in good faith and with fair dealing. A <a href="https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?lawCode=FAM&amp;sectionNum=1101." target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">breach of fiduciary duty</a> can result in damaging the other spouse’s interest in the community estate, which can include:
<ul>
 	<li aria-level="1">Concealing assets</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Unauthorized transfers</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Reckless mismanagement</li>
</ul>
Additionally, both spouses must submit a Preliminary Declaration of Disclosure. This requires you to be transparent about all assets and debts. Lying on these forms is perjury.
<h2>Signs your spouse is concealing assets</h2>
Even discreet actions can serve as clues that your spouse is <a href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">hiding assets</a>, such as:
<ul>
 	<li aria-level="1">Refuses to discuss finances</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Displays a sudden change in lifestyle</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Spends or transfers large amounts of money without explanation</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Claims to have lost tax returns, bank statements and other documents</li>
</ul>
When your gut tells you that something is wrong, act on your instinct.
<h2>Actions to take to protect your financial future</h2>
If you suspect your spouse of hiding assets, it would be wise to avoid accusing them of it. Instead, build a paper trail that you can use as solid evidence. With the right legal team, you can use discovery to dig deeper. This includes subpoenas for bank records or hiring a forensic accountant to trace missing funds.

While this process can feel overwhelming, seeking legal counsel can help you build a fair starting point for your next chapter.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Ashley Philpot Mattos</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Property Division in Divorce: What You Need to Know]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/01/property-division-in-divorce-what-you-need-to-know/" />
            <id>https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/?p=48866</id>
            <updated>2026-01-29T12:33:50Z</updated>
            <published>2026-01-29T12:33:50Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Property division affects where you live, what debt you carry and how you retire. When you understand how California handles marital property, you can better predict what may happen in your divorce. How California divides property California uses community property rules. According to California Family Code § 2550, courts must divide the community estate equally unless spouses have a written…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/01/property-division-in-divorce-what-you-need-to-know/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">Property division affects where you live, what debt you carry and how you retire. When you understand how California handles marital property, you can better predict what may happen in your divorce.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">How California divides property</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">California uses community property rules. According to </span><a href="https://codes.findlaw.com/ca/family-code/fam-sect-2550/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">California Family Code § 2550</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, courts must divide the community estate equally unless spouses have a written agreement or make a different arrangement on the record in court. The court looks at equal value and not whether each person gets the same items.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Even if you and your spouse agree on a division, a judge must approve it. If you do not agree, the court will decide how to divide property at a hearing or trial.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Community property versus separate property</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">California law places property into two groups: community property and separate property. Community property usually includes what either spouse earns, buys or owes during the marriage and before separation. Separate property usually includes what you owned before marriage, gifts or inheritances you received and income or debt that starts after separation.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">This difference matters because courts usually let each spouse keep their separate property. Courts usually split community property equally.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Common issues that can complicate a 50/50 split</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Courts divide property based on value and not by cutting everything in half. One spouse may keep a house or another large asset and make up the difference with other property or a payment. Problems often come up in these situations:</span>
<ul>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><b>Mixed property:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Separate and marital money get combined in a home, account or investment.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><b>Retirement benefits:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> A plan in one name may still include marital contributions.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><b>Shared debt:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> A debt from the marriage may count as joint even if one spouse signed.</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">

</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><b>Hidden assets:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> A spouse who hides property may face serious penalties.</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">These issues matter because mistakes in labeling or valuing property can change the final result. Until the court issues an order, most marital property and debt still belong to both spouses.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">When it may help to consult an attorney</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Property division can become complicated when high-value assets, retirement accounts or disputed debts are involved. An attorney can help identify whether property is community or separate, address commingling concerns and </span><a href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">prepare an agreement</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> that meets court requirements.</span>]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Ashley Philpot Mattos</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Protective orders: Understanding enforcement and compliance]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/01/protective-orders-understanding-enforcement-and-compliance/" />
            <id>https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/?p=48862</id>
            <updated>2026-01-08T13:55:44Z</updated>
            <published>2026-01-08T13:53:55Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Protective orders often enter someone’s life during moments of fear, conflict or urgency. Whether you requested the order or is subject to it, the rules can feel confusing. Many people think enforcement only matters if a serious incident happens. In reality, small choices and simple misunderstandings can affect how a protective order works and how a court later views the…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/01/protective-orders-understanding-enforcement-and-compliance/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">Protective orders often enter someone’s life during moments of fear, conflict or urgency. Whether you requested the order or is subject to it, the rules can feel confusing. </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">Many people think enforcement only matters if a serious incident happens. In reality, small choices and simple misunderstandings can affect how a protective order works and how a court later views the situation.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Protective orders exist to create safety and clear boundaries. They also affect many family law matters, especially when children or shared duties are involved. A general understanding of enforcement and compliance can help people avoid mistakes that create more problems.</span>
<h2>Why enforcement and compliance matters</h2>
<a href="https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/DV-restraining-order" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Protective orders carry legal weight</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, even when things seem calm or informal. Courts and law enforcement expect you </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">to follow every part of the order, not only the parts that feel most important.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Common issues that arise include:</span>
<ul>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Contact that feels harmless such as texts, calls or social media messages</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Communication through friends or family members</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Showing up at shared places without realizing it counts as contact</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Assuming consent from the protected person makes contact allowed</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Protective orders do not change based on private agreements between the parties. Even if both people agree to meet, the legal order remains in effect. When people bend the rules, even with good intentions, problems can follow. Taking the order seriously from the start often helps prevent larger issues later.</span>
<h2>What compliance looks like in daily life</h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Compliance means following the order exactly as written. This includes distance limits, communication rules and location restrictions. While these rules may feel strict, these rules apply at all times, not only during tense moments.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Some people struggle because the order’s language feels unclear. Others mistakenly believe the court will excuse small violations. However, c</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">ourts often look at behavior over time rather than single explanations. Consistent compliance matters, especially when children or <a href="/family-law/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">ongoing family law issues</a> are involved.</span>
<h2>How enforcement fits into the law process</h2>
When a protective order is in place, law enforcement can respond to reported concerns. Officers may review the order and assess the situation <span style="font-weight: 400;">based on what they observe. Because their role is to uphold the court's mandate, they focus strictly on the terms of the order.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Courts usually expect protected parties to report violations rather than ignore them. Repeated contact can weaken boundaries and complicate enforcement later. Alleged violations may also become part of the court record. While these events happen privately, these records can appear in later hearings involving custody, visitation or other family law matters.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Enforcement focuses on safety and compliance, not intent. Even conduct that seems minor can raise concerns if it conflicts with the order’s terms.</span>
<h2>Focusing on stability and protection</h2>
Protective orders help create structure during difficult situations. Understanding how enforcement works and why compliance matters can reduce confusion and stress. With clear information and careful guidance, people can respect court orders and focus on long-term stability for their family.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Law Offices of Ashley Philpot Mattos</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Paternity in California: Why acting early matters]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/11/paternity-in-california-why-acting-early-matters/" />
            <id>https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/?p=48861</id>
            <updated>2025-11-21T14:25:48Z</updated>
            <published>2025-11-21T14:25:48Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[If you are a parent or expectant parent in California, understanding paternity is important. Legal parentage (or paternity) determines who the law recognizes as your child’s parent. It affects your rights, responsibilities and decisions about your child’s care and support. Clarifying parentage early can give you clearer answers and more choices. How paternity can be established California law recognizes presumed…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/11/paternity-in-california-why-acting-early-matters/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are a parent or expectant parent in California, understanding paternity is important.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Legal parentage (or paternity) determines who the law recognizes as your child’s parent. It affects your rights, responsibilities and decisions about your child’s care and support. Clarifying parentage early can give you clearer answers and more choices.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">How paternity can </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">be established</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">California law recognizes presumed parentage. This means some situations can automatically make someone </span><a href="https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/parentage" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">a child’s legal parent</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. The law presumes you are a parent if you are the child’s birth parent or marry the child’s other parent. You are also presumed a parent if you sign an acknowledgment of paternity or get a court order that establishes parentage.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Each factor plays a real role in how the law views parentage. Marriage often automatically presumes parentage. A signed acknowledgment of paternity can create immediate legal rights and obligations, even if the parents are not married. A court must issue an order when parentage </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">is disputed</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">. These factors show how the law decides parentage. These also explain why you should act early.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why timing matters</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Waiting too long can create challenges for you and your child. Early clarification helps </span><a href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/family-law/" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">protect your rights</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. It also helps you take part in your child’s life. Waiting too long can affect several parts of your life, including:</span>
<ul>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Custody and visitation rights</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Child support obligations</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Inheritance and benefits</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The ability to make medical or educational decisions</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Knowing these risks shows why acting early can help your family stay secure and plan ahead.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Navigating the complexities of paternity</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">The legal rules around parent-child relationships can be complex. Knowing how the law decides parentage helps you protect your rights. Clarifying paternity gives you the information you need to make decisions. It also helps your family stay stable.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">This information is for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice. Laws and procedures can vary. The legal status of a parent-child relationship can be complex. If you have questions about paternity, it is important to seek legal counsel as soon as possible. We are here to help you understand your rights and take the necessary steps.</span>]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Is a 50/50 property split necessary in high-asset California divorces?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/?p=48860</id>
            <updated>2025-11-14T16:33:48Z</updated>
            <published>2025-11-14T16:33:48Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Many spouses who are thinking about divorce have questions about the process. They also worry about how to protect their money and property. If parties have built a large marital estate, including a home, savings, investments and personal items, dividing what spouses own together (often called community property or the marital estate) can feel daunting. Clear information can make the…]]></summary>
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<p class="mb-2 whitespace-pre-wrap">Many spouses who are thinking about divorce have questions about the process. They also worry about how to protect their money and property. If parties have built a large marital estate, including a home, savings, investments and personal items, dividing what spouses own together (often called community property or the marital estate) can feel daunting. Clear information can make the next steps easier.</p>

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People generally do not want to lose half of their assets when they divorce. Is a 50/50 split essentially guaranteed during California divorce proceedings?
<h2>50/50 division isn't always fair</h2>
Frequently, divorcing couples choose to take control of the divorce process. Instead of waiting for a judge to divide their assets, they negotiate a settlement with one another. Spouses can theoretically set whatever terms they agree are fair when pursuing an uncontested divorce where they set their own property division terms.

Even in a contested divorce, a judge can follow <a href="https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?sectionNum=760.&amp;lawCode=FAM" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">California’s community property law</a> without ordering a 50/50 split. In most cases, judges start the property division process with the presumption that an equal split is fair.
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<p class="mb-2 whitespace-pre-wrap">However, spouses can present information to the court to ask a judge for a different arrangement based on their marital circumstances. Factors such as each spouse’s health, earning potential and their custody arrangements can affect the judge’s final decision on how to divide shared property.</p>
<p class="mb-2 whitespace-pre-wrap">Even in scenarios where the goal is a relatively even split, it is not automatically necessary to divide every asset. People can use the value of one asset or marital debts to balance out other property division decisions.</p>

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Knowing what to expect in a <a href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">high-asset divorce</a> can help people prepare for the process ahead. Property division can be intimidating, but spouses have the option of taking control of the process in most cases.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How social media can help (or harm) a family law case]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/?p=48859</id>
            <updated>2025-09-12T12:43:14Z</updated>
            <published>2025-09-12T12:43:14Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Social media helps people maintain connections despite large geographic distances, and disseminate information quickly. Most people have acclimated to social media as part of their daily lives at this point. They may check in on a variety of different platforms throughout the day. Social media use can connect people with resources and emotional support while they go through difficult times.…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/09/how-social-media-can-help-or-harm-a-family-law-case/"><![CDATA[Social media helps people maintain connections despite large geographic distances, and disseminate information quickly. Most people have acclimated to social media as part of their daily lives at this point. They may check in on a variety of different platforms throughout the day.

Social media use can connect people with resources and emotional support while they go through difficult times. It is natural for those preparing for family law litigation to turn to social media to air their grievances, learn about the process and notify their inner circle of the major changes in their circumstances.

While social media can offer catharsis and emotional support for those preparing for family law proceedings, how people use social media can be a complicating factor in a family law matter. People generally need to be aware of how their social media behavior could influence a family law case.
<h2>Anything on social media could be evidence</h2>
Social media gives people the illusion of privacy. They can send direct or private messages. They can join private groups to discuss medical challenges or hobbies. Nothing that people share on social media is actually private. Even posts or messages that people delete are <a href="https://www.cnn.com/2022/09/18/tech/deleting-data" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">still available in many cases</a>.

Lawyers can request records from social media companies during the discovery process of a legal matter. Anything that people say, including unsavory jokes or seemingly threatening messages, could end up used as evidence during a family law dispute.

Generally speaking, avoiding discussions of pending legal matters online is in the best interest of the people facing legal issues. Many people choose to completely cease using social media while navigating legal matters.

Individuals who avoid the misuse of social media during family law matters may be able to glean evidence from others’ profiles. Messages, posts and comments from the other people involved in a family law matter could raise questions about their character or intentions.

Content shared online could corroborate claims of harassment or allegations of substance abuse. People seeking to obtain sole custody of a child or divorce might benefit from requesting social media records as they prepare for a hearing in family court.

People who are aware of the risks of social media when facing legal matters can avoid scenarios where their sense of humor or unusual social relationships negatively affect the outcome of their case. A person’s online presence can have a real-world impact on family law cases. An <a href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/family-law/" data-wpel-link="internal">experienced divorce lawyer</a> can provide guidance on how to navigate family law with social media as safely as possible.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How to prepare for your first divorce consultation]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/?p=48858</id>
            <updated>2025-08-26T12:16:27Z</updated>
            <published>2025-08-26T12:16:27Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Your first divorce consultation is a private meeting where you explain your situation and learn what steps may follow. You don’t need to arrive with everything figured out. However, a little preparation helps your attorney understand your circumstances and guide the conversation more effectively. Gather basic documents and financial details You don’t need to bring a full binder. A few…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/08/how-to-prepare-for-your-first-divorce-consultation/"><![CDATA[Your first divorce consultation is a private meeting where you explain your situation and learn what steps may follow. You don’t need to arrive with everything figured out. However, a little preparation helps your attorney understand your circumstances and guide the conversation more effectively.
<h2>Gather basic documents and financial details</h2>
You don’t need to bring a full binder. A few key items can help your attorney assess your situation:
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 	<li aria-level="1">Income records such as pay stubs</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">List of shared assets and debts</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Court filings or legal notices</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Child-related documents like school schedules or medical records</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Protective orders or police reports</li>
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These documents help clarify what’s at stake and highlight any urgent issues. If you’re missing some items, bring what you already have.
<h2>Identify your priorities and concerns</h2>
Before your consultation, take time to think about what matters most to you. You might be focused on custody, financial stability or personal safety. You don’t need a detailed plan. Having a clear sense of your concerns helps you speak more confidently and stay focused during the meeting.
<h2>Understand what courts may consider</h2>
California courts review specific factors when making decisions about custody and support. These include:
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 	<li aria-level="1">Ability of each parent to care for the child.</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Health and safety of the child.</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Emotional ties between the child and each parent.</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">History of domestic violence or substance use.</li>
 	<li aria-level="1">Financial circumstances of both parents.</li>
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For support, <a href="https://california.public.law/codes/family_code_section_4055" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">courts use a statewide formula</a> that considers income, time spent with the child and other financial details. These factors help determine what serves the child’s best interest. Your attorney needs accurate information to evaluate how these factors may apply. Everything you share stays confidential.
<h2>Ask questions and take notes</h2>
Divorce is stressful, but preparation can ease the burden. Ask about timelines, costs or <a href="https://www.apmfamilylaw.com/divorce/" data-wpel-link="internal">what happens next in the process</a>. Write down key points so you can review them later. Speak up if something feels unclear. Your attorney is there to guide you and help you make informed decisions. If you're still looking for legal support, go for someone who can truly advocate for you.]]></content>
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