Children who are journeying through their parents' divorce might have some negative thoughts about the time when they have to go from one home to the other. This is understandable because they've lived in one home with both adults for a long time. As a parent, it is...
Month: May 2019
Getting divorced? Keep it off of social media
Social media is an outlet. You talk about your joys and your triumphs. You share your struggles and frustrations. You connect with friends and family members. You get advice and you vent. It's a place where you quickly put your thoughts, typically not caring who reads...
Working through the ins and outs of your divorce
The end of your marriage brings great change. For people who have been married for a long time, splitting up might seem like an impossible feat. Fortunately, it is possible for you to move on and thrive. Many things go into this, but it is ultimately up to you to do...
Coping with passive-aggressive behavior from your ex
Passive-aggressive behavior can make all situations more difficult. When this occurs in a co-parenting relationship, it can make even easy-to-resolve conflicts incredibly challenging. Both parents have to be willing to take an honest look at their own behaviors so...
Prepare for the emotional journey of adopting a child
When you are ready to add a new member to your family, you might decide that you are going to adopt a child. This is a long and complex process, but it is very rewarding. There are several things that you need to think about when you are getting ready to embark upon...
You can control your reaction to divorce matters
A divorce is a tumultuous time in an adult's life. When you are the one going through it, you might crave peace. You can't control your ex's actions, but you can control your own actions and thoughts. You may be able to reduce the tension in the situation and help to...
Find ways to center co-parenting decisions around the kids
One of the most difficult tasks for parents is to come up with a child custody agreement when they go through a divorce. The emotions from the end of the marriage are still fresh and raw. This can make it difficult for parents to push those aside and make decisions...